Wednesday, March 9, 2011

Missing Live Chats Revealed

Thanks to Internet Evidence Finder v4 I was able to extract the following 'Facebook Chat' conversations between Travis and I.

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1/7/2011 15:27 Travis Levi Taylor Good Morning Lexie!!
1/7/2011 15:28 Elexis Hennigh  pretty good
1/7/2011 15:29 Travis Levi Taylor ;)
1/7/2011 15:30 Travis Levi Taylor Have you ever bought a lottery ticket, and had to look twice at it when they called the number?
1/7/2011 15:31 Travis Levi Taylor When you want something really bad, your eyes can play tricks on you.
1/7/2011 15:31 Elexis Hennigh  lol yeah
1/7/2011 15:32 Travis Levi Taylor So.  If I may ask a bold question...
1/7/2011 15:32 Elexis Hennigh  ...
1/7/2011 15:32 Travis Levi Taylor am I the first man you've asked out to dinner?
1/7/2011 15:33 Elexis Hennigh  what do you mean? you asked me. I'm just finally saying yes. LOL
1/7/2011 15:34 Travis Levi Taylor What did you think of the haiku?
1/7/2011 15:36 Travis Levi Taylor I do like to drive fast, you know
1/7/2011 15:36 Elexis Hennigh  ah that explains it then...lol
1/7/2011 15:37 Elexis Hennigh  i guess I better get up and get ready for work
1/7/2011 15:37 Travis Levi Taylor I've got to get some chinchilla food, too.
1/7/2011 15:37 Travis Levi Taylor May I call you later?
1/7/2011 15:38 Elexis Hennigh  sure...I've got a lot to do today though. I have to pack to leave for LA Sunday morning :)
1/7/2011 15:41 Elexis Hennigh  I'm sure we can figure something out. Maybe lunch...I might drive to my moms saturday night so she can drive me to the airport for the red eye
1/7/2011 15:42 Travis Levi Taylor Excellent!  I look forward to talking with you tonight!!!
1/7/2011 15:43 Elexis Hennigh  later dude!
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2/9/2011 23:36 Travis Levi Taylor Good Evening Lexie...
2/9/2011 23:36 Elexis Hennigh  hi
2/9/2011 23:36 Travis Levi Taylor How are you?
2/9/2011 23:36 Elexis Hennigh  great
2/9/2011 23:37 Travis Levi Taylor How's the weather in Stillwater?  Assuming you're in Stillwater...
2/9/2011 23:37 Elexis Hennigh  aren't you?
2/9/2011 23:37 Travis Levi Taylor Nope.
2/9/2011 23:37 Elexis Hennigh  y?
2/9/2011 23:37 Travis Levi Taylor Well...
2/9/2011 23:38 Travis Levi Taylor I kept getting mixed signals from OSU.
2/9/2011 23:38 Travis Levi Taylor I'm in... then I'm out.  I'm in... then I'm out.
2/9/2011 23:38 Elexis Hennigh  hm
2/9/2011 23:38 Travis Levi Taylor And it freaked me out.
2/9/2011 23:39 Travis Levi Taylor There's no way they know I half-assed my ACT.  But they sure act like they know it! heheheh
2/9/2011 23:40 Travis Levi Taylor A lot of people tell me that I don't need to go to college.
2/9/2011 23:40 Travis Levi Taylor I disagree.  I really think I need to.
2/9/2011 23:40 Travis Levi Taylor You're educated.  What do you think?
2/9/2011 23:41 Elexis Hennigh  I don't know...I never regret that I went for 7 years.
2/9/2011 23:42 Travis Levi Taylor Not all with OSU, though, right?
2/9/2011 23:42 Elexis Hennigh  right
2/9/2011 23:42 Travis Levi Taylor Obviously, OSU's your favourite, though.
2/9/2011 23:43 Elexis Hennigh  compared to what
2/9/2011 23:43 Travis Levi Taylor wherever else you went
2/9/2011 23:43 Elexis Hennigh  that was a masters program...not the same.
2/9/2011 23:43 Travis Levi Taylor I seem to recall it was Texas A&M, but I don't remember for sure.
2/9/2011 23:43 Elexis Hennigh  West Tx AM
2/9/2011 23:44 Elexis Hennigh  mostly distance education courses
2/9/2011 23:44 Travis Levi Taylor I took some college when I was in the Navy.
2/9/2011 23:44 Travis Levi Taylor distance education?
2/9/2011 23:44 Elexis Hennigh  online or mail in
2/9/2011 23:45 Travis Levi Taylor If only all of life was so convenient!
2/9/2011 23:45 Travis Levi Taylor Why did you stop teaching?  I'm totally sure you are an excellent teacher.
2/9/2011 23:45 Elexis Hennigh  not enough money
2/9/2011 23:46 Travis Levi Taylor I thought I would like to be an archaeologist.  But it doesn't pay for itself, either.  PhD's making 40k a year doesn't seem right.
2/9/2011 23:47 Travis Levi Taylor How did you get into computers?
2/9/2011 23:48 Elexis Hennigh  long story
2/9/2011 23:48 Travis Levi Taylor haha... every time I hear "long story" I get curious.
2/9/2011 23:48 Travis Levi Taylor I used to know a thing or two about computers...
2/9/2011 23:49 Travis Levi Taylor Back in the 90's.
2/9/2011 23:49 Travis Levi Taylor I did something to a computer network...
2/9/2011 23:49 Travis Levi Taylor that cost the government a whole lot of money.
2/9/2011 23:50 Travis Levi Taylor And I was very, very careful about it.
2/9/2011 23:50 Travis Levi Taylor And I didn't tell a soul, either.
2/9/2011 23:50 Travis Levi Taylor But I liked it.  And then one day...
2/9/2011 23:50 Travis Levi Taylor I was sitting in art class.
2/9/2011 23:51 Travis Levi Taylor And an acquaintance... not a close friend by any stretch of the imagination... comes and sits down next to me...
2/9/2011 23:51 Travis Levi Taylor and out of the blue says, "Have you seen Sneakers?"  I was like, "Huh?"
2/9/2011 23:51 Travis Levi Taylor Have you seen that movie, Lexie?
2/9/2011 23:53 Elexis Hennigh  sry trav you freaked me out...can't sit here and make small talk...i gotta go...
2/9/2011 23:53 Travis Levi Taylor I was just asking so you would know what I was thinking when he asked me that.
2/9/2011 23:54 Elexis Hennigh  sry...i'm seeing someone and you made it clear that you were not interested in just friends...so...i feel weird pretending things are the same.
2/9/2011 23:55 Travis Levi Taylor What do you mean the same?
2/9/2011 23:56 Elexis Hennigh  pretending that we are still good friends from high school...things are different now
2/9/2011 23:57 Travis Levi Taylor When you wanted to have dinner, is that all you wanted?  To catch up with an old friend from High School?
2/9/2011 23:58 Elexis Hennigh  yes.
2/9/2011 23:59 Travis Levi Taylor What I was trying to make clear (in the friend request I just sent you) was I don't "wanna" be friends.
2/9/2011 23:59 Travis Levi Taylor But maybe you didn't read that mssg until after we started this chat.
2/10/2011 0:00 Elexis Hennigh  haven't read it at all yet...didn't notice a message.
2/10/2011 0:02 Elexis Hennigh  and apparently I can't see it now
2/10/2011 0:02 Travis Levi Taylor I thought those things go into the mssg inbox?
2/10/2011 0:02 Travis Levi Taylor I can tell you what I said.
2/10/2011 0:03 Travis Levi Taylor It's a simple request...  but it's not a very honest one.  I don't wanna be friends. or something like that.
2/10/2011 0:04 Elexis Hennigh  what
2/10/2011 0:04 Elexis Hennigh  you sent me a friend request that said I don't want to be friends
2/10/2011 0:04 Elexis Hennigh  ?
2/10/2011 0:04 Travis Levi Taylor I can see how that might be confusing.
2/10/2011 0:05 Elexis Hennigh  once I accept the friend request it goes away and i can't get it back. If you meant to send a message send a 'message'.
2/10/2011 0:05 Travis Levi Taylor I tried that several minutes ago...
2/10/2011 0:06 Elexis Hennigh  and if I accept the request from my phone I definitely don't see the attached message
2/10/2011 0:06 Travis Levi Taylor and the computer restarted while I was typing it.  I honestly have no idea why.
2/10/2011 0:06 Elexis Hennigh  it doesn't matter then does it. If you don't want to be friends that srsly what!
2/10/2011 0:06 Elexis Hennigh  that=then
2/10/2011 0:08 Travis Levi Taylor You had it kinda right, before.  Why I assumed you read the message.
2/10/2011 0:08 Travis Levi Taylor We could be friends.
2/10/2011 0:08 Travis Levi Taylor But I wouldn't be a good friend if I wasn't honest with you.
2/10/2011 0:09 Travis Levi Taylor But if you already know I'm nothing more than friend material, then that is that.
2/10/2011 0:10 Elexis Hennigh  I am not looking for anyone else. I found him.
2/10/2011 0:13 Travis Levi Taylor I'm truly happy for you.  Just out of curiosity... is it the same man you were sorta seeing back in December?
2/10/2011 0:13 Elexis Hennigh  no
2/10/2011 0:13 Elexis Hennigh  its someone that I've known for about 15 years...
2/10/2011 0:14 Travis Levi Taylor Wow.
2/10/2011 0:14 Travis Levi Taylor What took him so long??
2/10/2011 0:15 Elexis Hennigh  lost touch
2/10/2011 0:15 Elexis Hennigh  had no idea where each other were
2/10/2011 0:15 Travis Levi Taylor People can change a lot in 15 years.
2/10/2011 0:16 Travis Levi Taylor So, has he already asked you to marry him?
2/10/2011 0:16 Elexis Hennigh  thanks for the encouragement
2/10/2011 0:17 Travis Levi Taylor encouragement?
2/10/2011 0:17 Elexis Hennigh  sarcasm
2/10/2011 0:17 Travis Levi Taylor ah! haha... I love sarcasm.
2/10/2011 0:17 Travis Levi Taylor Easier to detect face to face, of course.
2/10/2011 0:18 Travis Levi Taylor If you were referring to my question as to whether or not he's already asked you to marry him, I'm sure he will.
2/10/2011 0:19 Elexis Hennigh  no i was referring to your snide comment about how people change suggesting that we may not know eachother anymore.
2/10/2011 0:19 Travis Levi Taylor That's not what I meant.
2/10/2011 0:19 Elexis Hennigh  right.
2/10/2011 0:19 Travis Levi Taylor Really.
2/10/2011 0:19 Travis Levi Taylor I was just thinking...
2/10/2011 0:19 Travis Levi Taylor you knew him for 15 years
2/10/2011 0:20 Travis Levi Taylor and I was curious when you knew he was the one.
2/10/2011 0:24 Elexis Hennigh  When? Why does that matter? How? I've got that...I know he is the one because he can reach through the walls I've built.
2/10/2011 0:26 Travis Levi Taylor that's extraordinary
2/10/2011 0:26 Elexis Hennigh  yep
2/10/2011 0:27 Travis Levi Taylor heheheh
2/10/2011 0:27 Travis Levi Taylor Out of morbid curiosity...
2/10/2011 0:27 Elexis Hennigh  i don't feel you're sincere
2/10/2011 0:27 Travis Levi Taylor I have to ask...
2/10/2011 0:27 Travis Levi Taylor I was laughing in advance of the question I was about to ask you.
2/10/2011 0:28 Travis Levi Taylor I'm sincere.
2/10/2011 0:29 Travis Levi Taylor I'm still curious about how much snow you got in Stillwater...
2/10/2011 0:30 Elexis Hennigh  you're right that is a funny and morbid question! how dare you!
2/10/2011 0:30 Travis Levi Taylor haha
2/10/2011 0:30 Travis Levi Taylor That's a different question than the one I was going to ask before.
2/10/2011 0:30 Travis Levi Taylor I just wanted to get back to that.
2/10/2011 0:31 Travis Levi Taylor I'm sorry I wasn't clear before.
2/10/2011 0:31 Travis Levi Taylor About dinner.
2/10/2011 0:31 Travis Levi Taylor I wanted to have dinner with you to see if we could be more than friends.
2/10/2011 0:33 Travis Levi Taylor I thought you knew that... since I only heard back from you once.
2/10/2011 0:33 Travis Levi Taylor And you told me you were sorta seeing someone.  And you let me down very nicely... as you did before.
2/10/2011 0:33 Travis Levi Taylor You said it wasn't good timing.
2/10/2011 0:34 Travis Levi Taylor I thought you were just trying to be nice.
2/10/2011 0:34 Elexis Hennigh  most guys don't appreciate their girl going to dinner with a new guy out of the blue no matter who they are...
2/10/2011 0:34 Travis Levi Taylor And when you asked me to dinner, I thought you wanted to see me for dinner for the same reasons I wanted to see you for dinner.
2/10/2011 0:35 Elexis Hennigh  I just wanted to get out of the house. I thought it would be nice. Then you spun out of control with expectations. My dad was in town and you pressured me all day to give you a time or plan.
2/10/2011 0:36 Travis Levi Taylor You're right.  I shouldn't have done that.  I was distracted by some other things at the time, but that's not an excuse.
2/10/2011 0:37 Travis Levi Taylor For the record, my only expectation was to have dinner.
2/10/2011 0:38 Travis Levi Taylor Coincidentally...
2/10/2011 0:38 Travis Levi Taylor when you asked me to dinner
2/10/2011 0:38 Travis Levi Taylor I was sorta seeing someone.
2/10/2011 0:40 Elexis Hennigh  k
2/10/2011 0:41 Travis Levi Taylor Thank You for accepting my friend request.
2/10/2011 0:41 Travis Levi Taylor I have been kindof miserable, thinking you would never talk to me again.
2/10/2011 0:42 Elexis Hennigh  there you go throwing guilt on me yet again. I didn't do anything to you.
2/10/2011 0:42 Travis Levi Taylor Oh, it wasn't your fault.
2/10/2011 0:42 Travis Levi Taylor I didn't mean to imply it.
2/10/2011 0:43 Elexis Hennigh  but you sure make sure to inform me that you would have been miserable if I hadn't accepted your friend request. SRSLY. come on
2/10/2011 0:43 Travis Levi Taylor That's because I'm kindof an idiot, Lexie.
2/10/2011 0:43 Travis Levi Taylor Everybody knows I'm a genius.. but I'm also an moron.
2/10/2011 0:44 Travis Levi Taylor My stupidity isn't so obvious.
2/10/2011 0:45 Elexis Hennigh  im done letting you make me feel as if I let you down in some way.
2/10/2011 0:45 Travis Levi Taylor Good!
2/10/2011 0:45 Travis Levi Taylor You shouldn't feel that way.
2/10/2011 0:46 Travis Levi Taylor That's why I was apologizing for not being more clear before...
2/10/2011 0:46 Travis Levi Taylor ...and thanking you for accepting my friend request.
2/10/2011 0:48 Travis Levi Taylor So?
2/10/2011 0:48 Travis Levi Taylor How much snow did you get?
2/10/2011 0:50 Travis Levi Taylor Nevermind... I remember you said you don't have time for small talk right now.
2/10/2011 0:50 Elexis Hennigh  have a good night travis
2/10/2011 0:50 Travis Levi Taylor good night, Lexie
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2/13/2011 18:37 Travis Levi Taylor Lexie.

5 comments:

Anonymous said...

Seriously? You could of ignored this person and not replied to his message or his chat. Plus FB makes you able to make your profiel as private as you want it as well as block people.

careyo459 said...

Ignore Anonymous! Especially since they didn't have the guts to leave their name. Anyone can post an anonymous comment on a blog and feel no repercussions since they are anonymous. I found it very hard to follow your conversations because Travis kept wandering off into his own world. I know your radar was way up with this guy by the time these chats were over. If anything, you were much nicer than I would have been.

Jaime said...

Wow, just goes to show how out of it he really was. I can see where you're trying to be nice because that just the kind of person you are, I would have done the same thing but then you just have to spell it out for him and he STILL doesn't seem to get it...sorry you're still going through all this!

keely said...

Elexis - is reads like you were trying to give someone the benefit of the doubt. I get that. He will probably be the last - and that's okay too.

Anonymous said...

You seemed wary from the beginning. We women need to heed our gut instincts. It's a lesson I personally have to remind myself of repeatedly. I'm glad nothing horrible happened to you and I'm glad you're publishing your cautionary tale.